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1.職場:先升值,再升職; 2.溝通:先求同,再求異; 3.執行:先完成,再完美; 4.學習:先記錄,再記憶; 5.設計:先仿造,再創造; 6.創業:先成長,再成功; 7.發展:先站住,再站高; 8.人際:先交流,再交心; 9.先做好自己,再要求別人; 10.先解決心情,再解決事情。 你同意嗎? ─ 李嘉誠 ─

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旺夫: 只有女人才能旺男人

自古以来只有“旺夫”一词,没有“旺妇”一词,可见只有女人才能旺男人,而男人无法旺女人。 老婆发脾气越多,丈夫就会越衰,老婆越温柔如水,丈夫就会越旺。什么原因呢?面相学家根据面相找到旺夫相的女人,比如圆润,有光泽,柔和等等,都不是根本的原因,也做不到百分百的准确。 现在,从佛法的角度跟大家谈谈根本的原因—— 传统文化认为,女人是水做的,而水为财,是故,女人天生就是财命。这里的女人,是指所有的女人,而不是个别的女人。而男人的财,只是掩藏在五行水中,这个水,只是一小部分而已。所以,对于男人来讲,有一句话叫“成家立业”。只有成家了,才能立业,所以,男人需要一个女人来旺自己才可以立业,所以一个成功的男人背后总有一个为之奉献的女人。 我们来看看水的特质是什么: 1、水总是往低处流 水往低处流,如水女人在家庭关系中,一定肯就下,托起满家。 自以为妇女能顶半边天的女强人,失去了水的本分,跟男人争天,让男人没了空间,肯定克夫。因此一般很容易离婚,即使有钱也享受不了。 2、水遇障碍自动拐弯 水是至柔的,水流经过的地方,遇到障碍,会自动拐弯,不会硬碰硬,水就永远不会受到伤害。面对男人大发雷霆的时候,如水的女人善于以柔克刚,因为只有柔能克刚,刚不能克柔。 所以,如水的女人撒撒娇,发发嗲,耍耍赖,男人就没了脾气。所以如水的女人永远是一家之主。 以刚性为主的女人喜欢跟男人对着干,这个叫“鸡蛋碰石头”,而且遍体鳞伤的永远是女人。 我曾经遇到一个硬碰硬的美女,她告诉我说,以前丈夫对自己百依百顺,结婚后不久丈夫就有了外遇,我告诉她,百依百顺,只能依你顺你有限的次数,不能依你顺你一辈子。 只有你做了真女人,男人才会对你全心全意一辈子。 3、水能滋润万物 万物的成长不留痕迹,如水的女人,总能找到男人的好处,不动声色的夸奖男人,赞美男人,口吐莲花,让男人感觉自己是个英雄,充满了力量,下定决心一定要保护自己柔弱的妻子,如此两个人的关系才能亲密无间。 反之,女人经常挑男人的毛病,男人的心越来越凉,越来越没信心,觉得自己是个笨蛋,觉得自己是个废物,只能越来越走下坡路。 北京一个女人问我说,她丈夫找的小三,既没有她漂亮,也没有她学历高,钱也赚的没她多,她搞不懂自己的老公看上小三哪一点了?我告诉她,你老公喜欢对方的温柔体贴爱语,她哑口无言。 旺夫的意义在于:一个圆满的家庭,需要女人做好自己的本分,也需要男人做好自己的本分,不要让自己的女人受委屈,让自己的女人受委屈便是让自己的财富受委屈。 请同修们反省,自己是否是个如水的女人,自己是否是一个怕自己的女人受委屈的男人。妻子是水,水为财,家财不安,外财莫入。女人为水,男人为刚,要有容乃大。你有多大的肚量,就能盛多少财,你妻子不够的,外财会来补充,所以,作男人的,不能斤斤计较,要懂得慈悲喜舍。有人天天求财神,注定了自己是个穷人。有人经常慈悲喜舍,那么,在别人的眼里,他就是财神,财神没有钱,谁还能有钱呢!

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Teamwork

一木是木,两木是林,三木是森! (A Solid Wood is Just a Solid Wood, Two Woods is a Tree, Three Woods Become a Forest) 只有一片森林才能改变气候!(Only a Forest to Change the Climate!) 一人是人,两人是从,三人是众! (One Person is Only with the Strength of a One Person, Two  is … Continue reading

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My Top 7 Life Philosophy and Principles

I am responsible for my own success and failure.  And each and every other person, including family members, is also responsible for theirs, no blaming, no pushing away  of responsibility. I do not belong to me, I am only a … Continue reading

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I Ching on Giving and Receiving 易经曰: 捨得

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Our Life is in Our hands

An adult once asked a old wise man, “Oh, old wise man, is the bird in my hand alive or death?” “Its life, alive or death, is in your hand, son. Let it goes, it is alive, squeeze it, it … Continue reading

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Talk and Communicating

Talking involves just one party, the person often love to talk and talk his or her way through, especially the negative people while communicating involving at least two parties with the intention to ensure messages are well received and perceived … Continue reading

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Living and Confronting Life

Always welcome the challenges and ‘problems’ of Life; For they can be our true teachers for us to learn from. If we do not perceived them with negativities then it will cease to be a problem; For problem is only a problem if … Continue reading

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The Mind The Nature

心如工畫師,能畫諸世間 The mind is like an artist Who can depict anything in the world 若人知心行,普造諸世間 If a person knows the mind’s activities can create everything in the world 本自清淨;本不生滅;能生萬法。 The self-nature is originally pure in itself. The self-nature is originally neither produced … Continue reading

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Self-awareness for Growth

1. The Highly Commercialized World We are living in a highly commercialized world with plentiful of unethical business innovators and business people who primary aim is after MONEY. The world is at powerful control of the Powerful Manipulative Politicians and … Continue reading

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